Being in a relationship can be one of the most challenging things you will ever do in your life. It is hard. It is harder than hard. There is no doubt about it! You will be pushed to limits that you never knew you had. All of your deepest fears, frustrations, insecurities, and worst behavior will come out. Don’t get us wrong though, relationships can also be one of the best things ever. You just have to understand that they are a learning process. If you are not willing to put in the time then you will stagnate, your relationship will crash, and likely it will leave you with a ton of emotional baggage. So take heed to these relationship hacks because you will need them (everybody does).
Remember, every relationship requires work and effort. However, if you get through successfully then you will almost certainly end up being a better person and having gained a lot of wisdom from life. And that is why were compiling this list. Today we are going to go through some of the best and most useful things you can do for your relationship. Get ready because these are 25 awesome relationship hacks to spark the romance!
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Use code words
Make up a silly phrase like “laughing elephant” for example. Then use this phrase whenever you get in an argument. Both partners should make a pact that as soon as somebody says that phrase during an argument, the argument is over and you will hug each other. (note: this should not be used just to shut the other person up)
Pick your arguments
If you don’t care about something, don’t argue about it. It’s a waste of time and only creates unnecessary tension. You’d be surprised how many times you fight with people just to win, even though you’d be relatively fine with their preferences as well.
Fight while walking
If you do need to fight, hold hands and go for a walk. The argument will look a lot different than if you stayed at home and stared each other down.
Keep a notebook
Have a secret journal where you write down the things he/she said that he/she likes or wanted to buy or even wanted to do. Jot down the date as well and then when you have time down the road, surprise your partner. It shows great care and attention to detail.
Do nice things
Psychology tells us that our brain creates moods that are consistent with our actions. If you show your partner affection even when you don’t want to, your brain will actually start to create affectionate emotions.